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How to Judge if Your Wife is Cheating on You?

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Unfortunately, you could just be correct if you feel your wife is cheating on you. That’s the aspect nobody wants to recognize. It’s because you’ve had your doubts and want to set your client at rest if you’ve made your way to this post. 

Perhaps you have gotten caught in a spiral of depression and with each passing day, you notice yourself becoming more suspicious. This isn’t simple. And neither is your wife dreaming about sleeping with someone else.

For very various reasons, women cheat more than males cheat. So you need to be completely sure before you go and accuse her of sleeping around. If you need some evidence for your peace of mind and to back up your assumptions when you confront her, here’s how you can tell that she’s sleeping with someone else.

She pays a lot of attention to her phone

Yeah, everyone pays a lot of attention to their phones these days, but you will be right to doubt her motives if she prefers to browse through social media or respond to text messages instead of talking to you.

According to psychologist and therapist Dr Tracey Phillips, it could be a sign of deception to hide stuff from you on their phone:

“In your presence, they might try to avoid receiving any questionable calls or texts.”

She may not even know she’s doing it, but if she has an affair, you can bet she’s going to be defensive and offended by the implication that she’s doing something other than posting her new selfie photo.

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Pay attention if your wife is unreachable for long periods

This could be a cause for alarm if your wife unexpectedly stops answering your calls and answering your messages. Note if you have difficulty obtaining an answer multiple times a week, as well as the period of the day when this happens. Seek information when she provides you with reasons to see if her narrative shifts and consider if the explanation makes sense.

Let’s say, for instance, your wife normally answers your texts when she’s in the office, but she hasn’t answered lately. Chat about what’s going on with her. She’s likely been busy working on a major project, but it’s also possible that she’s spending quality time with somebody else optimizing their texts.

Attitude Changes

Your wife can encounter stressful situations or problems with other relationships that can contribute to attitude changes. Consider other factors, as well as the possibility for unfaithfulness, when you see these symptoms.

  • Signs of low self-esteem are displayed by your wife.
  • Your wife has a sense of uncertainty about herself, you realize.
  • There’s more derogatory about your wife than ever.
  • It makes your wife more skeptical of you.
  • More frequently, the wife appears to be picking battles.
  • If you suggest infidelity or scandals, your wife gets protective.
  • You do not feel pleased with the answer when you ask for reassurance about cheating.

Significantly less, or more, or different sex in your relationship

An indication of unfaithfulness may be both decreased and improved levels of sexual activity in your relationship. Less sex happens when someone else is focusing on your wife; more sex happens because she is trying to cover it up.

Another potential indication of adultery is that you think less emotionally connected to the sex you and your wife have. Yet another potential indication is that new strategies and practices are being incorporated into your sex life by your wife. As much as you would like that, outside of your relationship, it’s likely that she is learning new techniques.

Emotional intimacy has faded

No relation is as strong after a few years as it was in the first few months. That said, over time, we begin to bond and communicate safely, coming to trust each other with our secrets, our wishes, and other significant aspects of our lives. The method is referred to as developing emotional intimacy.

And emotional intimacy is what, long after the flower is off the rose, holds us bound to our significant other, so to clarify. So if your wife probably seems to you to be less emotionally sensitive and romantic and does not seem to want you to be emotionally sensitive and romantic, that’s a clear sign that their attention has changed, most likely to an affair partner.

Conclusion

It is an awful feeling to worry that your wife is cheating, so you will want to get to reality quickly. Often the indications of cheating are hard to recognize, particularly if you’re getting slighted.

Research the actions and appearance of your wife to look for odd changes if you’re concerned about your relationship. Pay close attention to her social behaviours, her actions at home, and her appearance changes.

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The Future of Payments: Key Trends to Watch in 2025

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By Luke Kyohere

The global payments landscape is undergoing a rapid transformation. New technologies coupled with the rising demand for seamless, secure, and efficient transactions has spurred on an exciting new era of innovation and growth. With 2025 fast approaching, here are important trends that will shape the future of payments:

1. The rise of real-time payments

Until recently, real-time payments have been used in Africa for cross-border mobile money payments, but less so for traditional payments. We are seeing companies like Mastercard investing in this area, as well as central banks in Africa putting focus on this. 

2. Cashless payments will increase

In 2025, we will see the continued acceleration of cashless payments across Africa. B2B payments in particular will also increase. Digital payments began between individuals but are now becoming commonplace for larger corporate transactions. 

3. Digital currency will hit mainstream

In the cryptocurrency space, we will see an increase in the use of stablecoins like United States Digital Currency (USDC) and Tether (USDT) which are linked to US dollars. These will come to replace traditional cryptocurrencies as their price point is more stable. This year, many countries will begin preparing for Central Bank Digital Currencies (CBDCs), government-backed digital currencies which use blockchain. 

The increased uptake of digital currencies reflects the maturity of distributed ledger technology and improved API availability. 

4. Increased government oversight

As adoption of digital currencies will increase, governments will also put more focus into monitoring these flows. In particular, this will centre on companies and banks rather than individuals. The goal of this will be to control and occasionally curb runaway foreign exchange (FX) rates.

5. Business leaders buy into AI technology

In 2025, we will see many business leaders buying into AI through respected providers relying on well-researched platforms and huge data sets. Most companies don’t have the budget to invest in their own research and development in AI, so many are now opting to ‘buy’ into the technology rather than ‘build’ it themselves. Moreover, many businesses are concerned about the risks associated with data ownership and accuracy so buying software is another way to avoid this risk. 

6. Continued AI Adoption in Payments

In payments, the proliferation of AI will continue to improve user experience and increase security.  To detect fraud, AI is used to track patterns and payment flows in real-time. If unusual activity is detected, the technology can be used to flag or even block payments which may be fraudulent. 

When it comes to user experience, we will also see AI being used to improve the interface design of payment platforms. The technology will also increasingly be used for translation for international payment platforms.

7. Rise of Super Apps

To get more from their platforms, mobile network operators are building comprehensive service platforms, integrating multiple payment experiences into a single app. This reflects the shift of many users moving from text-based services to mobile apps. Rather than offering a single service, super apps are packing many other services into a single app. For example, apps which may have previously been used primarily for lending, now have options for saving and paying bills. 

8. Business strategy shift

Recent major technological changes will force business leaders to focus on much shorter prediction and reaction cycles. Because the rate of change has been unprecedented in the past year, this will force decision-makers to adapt quickly, be decisive and nimble. 

As the payments space evolves,  businesses, banks, and governments must continually embrace innovation, collaboration, and prioritise customer needs. These efforts build a more inclusive, secure, and efficient payment system that supports local to global economic growth – enabling true financial inclusion across borders.

Luke Kyohere is the Group Chief Product and Innovation Officer at Onafriq

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Ghana’s Democratic Triumph: A Call to Action for Nigeria’s 2027 Elections

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In a heartfelt statement released today, the Conference of Nigeria Political Parties (CNPP) has extended its warmest congratulations to Ghana’s President-Elect, emphasizing the importance of learning from Ghana’s recent electoral success as Nigeria gears up for its 2027 general elections.

In a statement signed by its Deputy National Publicity Secretary, Comrade James Ezema, the CNPP highlighted the need for Nigeria to reclaim its status as a leader in democratic governance in Africa.

“The recent victory of Ghana’s President-Elect is a testament to the maturity and resilience of Ghana’s democracy,” the CNPP stated. “As we celebrate this achievement, we must reflect on the lessons that Nigeria can learn from our West African neighbour.”

The CNPP’s message underscored the significance of free, fair, and credible elections, a standard that Ghana has set and one that Nigeria has previously achieved under former President Goodluck Jonathan in 2015. “It is high time for Nigeria to reclaim its position as a beacon of democracy in Africa,” the CNPP asserted, calling for a renewed commitment to the electoral process.

Central to CNPP’s message is the insistence that “the will of the people must be supreme in Nigeria’s electoral processes.” The umbrella body of all registered political parties and political associations in Nigeria CNPP emphasized the necessity of an electoral system that genuinely reflects the wishes of the Nigerian populace. “We must strive to create an environment where elections are free from manipulation, violence, and intimidation,” the CNPP urged, calling on the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) to take decisive action to ensure the integrity of the electoral process.

The CNPP also expressed concern over premature declarations regarding the 2027 elections, stating, “It is disheartening to note that some individuals are already announcing that there is no vacancy in Aso Rock in 2027. This kind of statement not only undermines the democratic principles that our nation holds dear but also distracts from the pressing need for the current administration to earn the trust of the electorate.”

The CNPP viewed the upcoming elections as a pivotal moment for Nigeria. “The 2027 general elections present a unique opportunity for Nigeria to reclaim its position as a leader in democratic governance in Africa,” it remarked. The body called on all stakeholders — including the executive, legislature, judiciary, the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC), and civil society organisations — to collaborate in ensuring that elections are transparent, credible, and reflective of the will of the Nigerian people.

As the most populous African country prepares for the 2027 elections, the CNPP urged all Nigerians to remain vigilant and committed to democratic principles. “We must work together to ensure that our elections are free from violence, intimidation, and manipulation,” the statement stated, reaffirming the CNPP’s commitment to promoting a peaceful and credible electoral process.

In conclusion, the CNPP congratulated the President-Elect of Ghana and the Ghanaian people on their remarkable achievements.

“We look forward to learning from their experience and working together to strengthen democracy in our region,” the CNPP concluded.

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The Need to Promote Equality, Equity and Fairness in Nigeria’s Proposed Tax Reforms

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By Kenechukwu Aguolu

The proposed tax reform, involving four tax bills introduced by the Federal Government, has received significant criticism. Notably, it was rejected by the Governors’ Forum but was still forwarded to the National Assembly. Unlike the various bold economic decisions made by this government, concessions will likely need to be made on these tax reforms, which involve legislative amendments and therefore cannot be imposed by the executive. This article highlights the purposes of taxation, the qualities of a good tax system, and some of the implications of the proposed tax reforms.

One of the major purposes of taxation is to generate revenue for the government to finance its activities. A good tax system should raise sufficient revenue for the government to fund its operations, and support economic and infrastructural development. For any country to achieve meaningful progress, its tax-to-GDP ratio should be at least 15%. Currently, Nigeria’s tax-to-GDP ratio is less than 11%. The proposed tax reforms aim to increase this ratio to 18% within the next three years.

A good tax system should also promote income redistribution and equality by implementing progressive tax policies. In line with this, the proposed tax reforms favour low-income earners. For example, individuals earning less than one million naira annually are exempted from personal income tax. Additionally, essential goods and services such as food, accommodation, and transportation, which constitute a significant portion of household consumption for low- and middle-income groups, are to be exempted from VAT.

In addition to equality, a good tax system should ensure equity and fairness, a key area of contention surrounding the proposed reforms. If implemented, the amendments to the Value Added Tax could lead to a significant reduction in the federal allocation for some states; impairing their ability to finance government operations and development projects. The VAT amendments should be holistically revisited to promote fairness and national unity.

The establishment of a single agency to collect government taxes, the Nigeria Revenue Service, could reduce loopholes that have previously resulted in revenue losses, provided proper controls are put in place. It is logically easier to monitor revenue collection by one agency than by multiple agencies. However, this is not a magical solution. With automation, revenue collection can be seamless whether it is managed by one agency or several, as long as monitoring and accountability measures are implemented effectively.

The proposed tax reforms by the Federal Government are well-intentioned. However, all concerns raised by Nigerians should be looked into, and concessions should be made where necessary. Policies are more effective when they are adapted to suit the unique characteristics of a nation, rather than adopted wholesale. A good tax system should aim to raise sufficient revenue, ensure equitable income distribution, and promote equality, equity, and fairness.

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